It’s All in Your Mind

I used to dislike the phrase, “It’s all in your mind.”

As I used all the most important techniques for manifestation and achieving goals, I would run into mental and emotional challenges.

Well-meaning people around me would drop the classic line, “It’s all in your mind,” and it just made me want to roll my eyes.

This phrase is used as if I should change my mind. Like a switch that I had forgotten to pull. 😵‍💫

But then I had an “ah ha” moment. I started viewing it as a powerful, positive mantra, and it became a secret weapon.

“It’s all in your mind” is like a magical gateway to turning things around. It’s about connecting the amazing thoughts we have with the powerhouse actions we take.

It’s all about embodying the positive truths while still respecting our humanity and the negative thoughts that we all have.

Now, when I reach a roadblock, I do some introspection while limiting my judgment and figure out the problem.

👉🏽 Why am I not doing what I intend to do? I look for an ACTUAL answer, like I’m not leaving enough time between work and home, rather than something punishing like, “I never follow through on anything.”

👉🏽 What’s missing in my approach? Should I try something new, rather than repeating the same mistake over and over, perpetuating the negative thought in my head that says “I can’t do it.”

👉🏽 Can I be more effective about setting a goal and an intention and supporting myself in taking the right steps? For instance, if I’m having trouble working out when I plan to, can I find a different time to workout?

That’s when “It’s all in your mind” made sense! It doesn’t mean, “Stop feeling sorry for yourself.” It doesn’t mean, “You just have the wrong attitude.” It doesn’t mean, “You’re just not smart enough to succeed.”

It means “mind over matter” is a game changer. Its away to learn and grow:

✅ Setting the right kind of goals, rather than ones that are rooted in fantasy
✅ Making a plan based on my desires and values
✅ Applying those desires and values to each step along the way – like making a daily intention for each workout instead of just showing up.

Aligning your thoughts and actions is the key to unlocking the door to your dreams — whether it’s smashing your fitness goals or anything else you desire in life!

Where your mind goes, your body will follow.

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So fascia has become a very big buzzword in the health industry lately, and it’s a great thing because it’s a very important piece of tissue that’s got a lot of jobs that need some love and care like the rest of your body. But unfortunately, the information out there is completely not so great. I just did quick searches on YouTube about different fascial techniques, and the stuff they show you is either incomplete or completely wrong. And articles that go out there aren’t totally onboard too. So, I read an article on how to exercise your fascia. I don’t remember where I read it, and they had some great information about what fascia is and all that stuff, which is really good. But in the protocols they gave you to take care of your fascia, were the same protocols for general exercise that I’ve been seeing since when I first started eighties and nineties. There was no difference of information and that’s crazy because it’s a different tissue, so it needs different love, needs different exercises. Now, fascia can be exercises and can be stretched. We’re going to focus on fascial stretching today. So I’ll give you a little information about fascia and the best way to fascial stretch properly.

Hey, if you haven’t met me, my name is Ekemba Sooh. I’m the owner of Solcore Fitness and I’m a therapist and I’m a trainer and it’s under the osteopathic program, which I’ve been involved with now for Jesus almost 20 years, and I’ve been in the field for almost 30 years. So I’m very into fitness. I view health and fitness as a vehicle for a better life. Not just to get stronger, more mobile or whatever stuff you want to accomplish. It’s a way to challenge yourself, to better yourself and to have your body keep up with the way you want to do.

Fascia is a big part of how I approach fitness because I view it from a holistic sense, not just a macro sense. So if you’re interested in hearing more about that, subscribe to the channel, click the bell, be notified, and I’ll get out videos about on ce a week where I’ll talk all about different aspects I think are important.

So what is fascia? So fascia is a living tissue. I know prior to all the fascia fame for most traditional forms of information, they talked about fascia is just like the white stuff over the meat that you pull away to investigate the muscles and all that stuff. But fascia’s been around for a long time, especially in the osteopathic paradigm, which I’m a part of, and they’ve talked about fascia for a long time in terms of treating and training it.

Fascia is a combination of cells, fibers, and matrix, and it has a system within it called gel and sol. Gel and sol is your PRM. PRM stands for primary respiratory method. Before you’re born, inside your mama, your cells breathed by gel and sol. It’s a breaking up of cells and bringing back together. I’m not going to go too in depth of this, but it’s basically a breathing pattern that happens kind of in a figure eight or [inaudible 00:03:07] fashion. It’s very important because if you don’t have it, you’re dead.

The most important word you want to understand with fascia is connective tissue. Fascia is called connective tissue. It’s called connective tissue because it connects everything. Everything in your body is connected by fascia. You can say that from in utero to now you have one fascia that’s split into thousands of different ways, different chains in different ways. Fascia is tendons, fascia is ligaments, fascia is your periosteum, the skin around your bone, adventitia, epineurium around your arteries and veins and around your nerves. It’s your pericardium. It’s connected to all, and most importantly for this video, it’s around your muscles through different layers. Epimysium, epineurium, paramecium. Oh my God, I can’t get that.

It surrounds your muscle tissue from the smallest to the biggest, right? So you can say that the muscle is a stupid piece of meat, okay? It does what the fascia tells it to do. It tells it because the bag around the muscle needs to be in a good place. If the bag is nice, well, the muscle’s nice, the bag is all jacked up. Well, the muscle’s jacked up. Fascia has a lot of different roles. Again, it’s not inert. It’s not just the white stuff that covers your muscles. It has a structure job, circulation, neurobiology, communication, energy, defense, protection and scarring. That’s a lot of jobs. Again, it’s not inert. It has stuff to do in your body, and so it needs to be respected because if you just go about it in a bad way, you’re going to stop it from doing its jobs, which means it stops your body from working properly and it’s going to make you worse.

If you like to read more on this subject of fascia, you can go to “Strolling Underneath The Skin.” It’s by Jean Claude Guimberteau. It’s a great video that kind of just shows how the fascia is organized and how it lives in the body. He also has a great book that I recommend you reading if you really want to dig into the things. But I gave you the basics, but that’s a great resource to dig in a little bit more.

Let’s take a quick little break because I want to hear from you. Have you ventured into the fascia world? Have you tried different fascial techniques hoping to help your body? Has it helped? Has it made it worse? I want to know. Just use the comments below to let me know.

Let’s talk a little bit about how not to work with your fascia. So let’s go back to the information I gave you, how your fascia’s connected and connects everything. It connects through two different systems. Continue… I got to do it again. It connects through continuity and contiguity. Okay, big fancy words. Continuity means it’s continuous. In your fascia, those how it’s made with the cells, fibers and matrix. There’s collagen and tubes within the fascia, little tubes, and it connects all through the tubes. It looks like a little spider web at times. Those tubes carry liquid. That liquid carries nutrition and carries away waste. It does good things for the body. So it’s like you have a spider web through your body that’s connecting. If I have a continuity to the body, that means that line of fascia, irregardless of what different areas of your body or muscles it touches, continues all the way to the end. So that liquid I talked about can continue all the way to the end.Contiguity means it just kind of like it runs into it, but the tubes don’t line up, but it helps hold it in place. So it’s an important job too.

If I approach fascial stretching or any type of things to do with the fascia and it’s aggressive and it crushes those tubes, that’s not a good thing. So if you try to stretch or treat it by foam rolling or aggressive techniques like the Graston technique, things like that, that damage those tubes, you’re not treating your fascia, you’re damaging your fascia. So if you want to stretch the fascia properly, you need to make sure you stretch it in line with those tubes so you can loosen up the tube.

I’m going to give you an example. Let’s see if you you guys can see me.

From the back of my heel to my outer calf to one of my biceps, my bicep femoris, which is a lateral part, up to my issue of tuberosity through my glute and pelvis and into my back, I can go up my spine to my head or out into my arm for two big chains of that continuity. I’m never going to get that right. Continuity all the way through. It goes all the way through up to the spine, to the head, out to the arm.

So there’s a lot of different muscles involved with that. Let’s just take from the calcaneus, your heel, all the way up to your arm. I’ve got one of my calf muscles, my gastroc, my lateral, one of them. I’ve got one bicep femoris. I’ve got my glutes, I’ve got my thoraco lumbar fascia, which is basically into my lat all the way out. So I got a bunch of different names there, but that’s one chain. So if you want to start stretching the fascia properly, you have to respect the chain. You have to know which muscle you want to work. A lot of muscles, 600 of them, okay? So you have to understand which one you want to work, and you have to know which chain is involved with that muscle.

Then on top of that, you have to know how to one, stretch the muscle in the opposite direction. So if my bicep femoris helps me to bend my knee and extend my hip, I want to extend my knee and flex my hip. That’s opposite actions of the bicep. There’s a bunch of more, but what happens is when I contract the muscle, it gets shorter. When I stretch it or extend it, it gets longer. So I want to make it longer because I’m trying to stretch it. I’m not trying to strengthen it. So I want to do the opposite action of that muscle, whichever one you choose to start with in that chain.

And then I’m going to line up the fascia from, as I tell people all the time, from the tip of your toes to the tip of your fingers, from the tip of your head to tip your tailbone, your butt. You want tension throughout your body because fascia wants to work globally. That’s what it likes. So if I don’t work it globally in that chain specifically, it’s not going to listen.

The two best techniques I’ve come across, in my almost 30 years now, for fascial exercise in terms of stretching are myofascial stretching and global postural stretching. Myofascial stretching will stretch the way it just told you in this specific chain. Global postural stretching, which you do a different time, is more globally through the body, through different chains. You can stretch different areas of your body, so it’s not just one area of the knee. You can stretch the lateral knee. The medial knee. I don’t want to get too deep in depth there, but they all respect the facial change and the globality, have no idea if that’s a word, but it sounds good to me, the globality of the body that you put into tension.

Here’s a quick example of how not to train your fascia. So I had a client come in over the summer and she had really bad achilles tendonitis, tension in her calf, plantar fasciitis, and up in Toronto, she went to go see a physiotherapist, and what they did was the Graston technique where you take a big piece of metal and you kind of just dig into your body to try and release the fascia. It made her issues 20 times worse, and when she came here, I said, “That’s actually an easy fix. It’s not a big deal.” I gave her some gentle fascial treatment for her plantar fascia, for her calf and soleus, and gave her a couple of stretches for her soleus and calves. 90% better the first day, a 100% better within a couple of weeks. Because we worked with the fascial chains. We worked the way that fascia is designed, not aggressively try to force it to do something different.

Once you’ve decide which technique you use, myofascial stretching or GPS, and you find the areas you want to work, basic parameters are three times 30 seconds each side if you have to switch. A bunch of studies on how most effective to stretch the muscles. Some muscles work better on like 45 seconds. Some work better on like 15 seconds. To go through and know which each one in the body is maddening. So they said, oh look, here’s a good average, three times 30 seconds. That’s what you want to do.

Then you want to build out your program. So if you started with, let’s say, the bicep femoris as your main stretch because your hamstrings were tight, okay, great. Now I need to incorporate the lateral gastroc and you incorporate a glute stretch, either inferior or superior, and incorporate my lat stretch and incorporate spinal stretches. Whatever the chain you want, you have to incorporate those stretches, but then you also have to build out the rest of your body. Because if we’re balanced, bio integrity, which we are, if bio integrity is dictated by proper tension and compression, which it is, and if bio integrity is also based off interdependent, interconnected areas doing their job, which it is, then you need to work with rest of your body.

Because if you have an imbalancement on, let’s say, that bicep femoris on one side, well, it’s going to unbalance the rest of your body. Maybe it’s not as acute, but it still needs love. So you can say you have A program and a B program. Okay. My A program is to work with these three areas, bicep femoris, lateral gastroc, glute. Maybe lat. Okay, four part. Okay. 15 minute program. Okay. On the other days, okay, well, let me balance the other side of my body with a global thing for my transverse spinalis or my other lat or my other glute. I don’t know. It depends on your body.

But you need to build out that program so your body stays balanced. Now you’ll never stay totally balanced because we’re always making ourself being out of balance just from life, from work, from the activities we do, from just what we do. So we always need to keep up with our stretching. Myofascial stretching, GPS, are a great way to respect the fascia, balance the whole body, so you live a great life.

Okay. I’m done talking for today. So I hope that’s very beneficial for you. I hope you got a lot of information about it. Generally when this happens, you have more questions than answers, so I want to be able to help you out. So I got a couple of different options for you to further your information so you can help to develop a program that works for your body. I’ve got a free Facebook group, I’m going to put the link in comments, where you can be more interactive with your educational process. You can talk to me, you can watch my mini trainings, you can participate in our masterclasses, participate in our free challenges. All within this group specifically. All you have to do is click that link, answer a few questions, agree to the terms, poof, you’re in. Happy times.

If that doesn’t work for you, if you want to just read a little more material, then I have a free ebook. It’s how to get out of pain, get mobile, and have your body keep up with the life you want to live. I’ll put that link again in the comments. Not the comments, in the description. You click on that link, put your information in and you get instant access.

If you’re ready to go though, if you’d like what I’ve said here and you’ve watched some my videos and you like my approach, this holistic approach, then reach out for a consult. You’ll speak with me personally. You just click on a link, you find a time that works for you, schedule it, and we talk. If you don’t find a time, you can email support@soulcorefitness.com. But it’s a way for me to get information about you so I can give you helpful information. I can tell you, “Hey, I think this is the best way for you,” or “Be careful this” or whatever comes up. And then only if I see you’re a good fit for our program, I’ll offer you a place in our program. If you’re not, then I’m going to give that information. No obligation, you’re good to go.

So I hope you enjoyed this training. Check out this video here on how to stretch properly for mobility. Stay tuned for more information on this channel and have a great day.