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Jun 01 2023

Fear Disguised as Practicality: How to Recognize It

“Once I do X, then I’ll…”
“Things are chaotic—when it calms down, I’ll start.”
“This works for my schedule better than that…”

We’ve all justified inaction with logic. How often is “practicality” just fear whispering in a business suit?

Understanding Fear’s Tricky Disguise

Our brains crave safety—and often seek it through rationalizations:

Not booking that health screening because “it can wait until after this stressful month.”
Delaying a new fitness routine until “work slows down.”
Settling for an old, ineffective stretch routine because “switching now might throw everything off.”

But comfort (and its twin, “practicality”) can quietly block your growth, health, and happiness.

Why the Smartest People Get Tricked

“Mary,” a high-powered attorney, was a pro at planning. She never missed a deadline—with work. But her back pain program? “Not a good quarter to start.” Every season, the excuse shifted: a trial, a trip, a new training, the holidays. Behind her logic was fear—fear of failure, fear of discomfort, even fear of success (“What if I actually get better?”).

How to Spot Fear’s Favorite Phrases

“Now’s just not the right time.”
“Let me just fix X and I’ll start Y.”
“I just need more information/training/support before beginning.”
“What I’m already doing is fine—for now.”

These keep you in the comfort zone, repackaged as wisdom.

What’s Underneath Three Core Fears

Fear of Judgment: “What if I try and fail?” So you never start, and no one can criticize your efforts.
Fear of Discomfort: Change is work, and routines are cozy—even when unfulfilling.
Fear of Losing Identity: Many folks make being “busy,” “always struggling,” or “injured” part of who they are; growth threatens that narrative.

How to Break Free Action Steps

1. Notice the Script
Any “practical but perpetual” reason should trigger a red flag.
Jot down what you tell yourself, and note how often these “valid” reasons push your real health, fitness, or growth to the back burner.

2. Name the Real Fear
Ask bluntly: “If there were no obstacles, what would I feel if I started today?” Surfacing the fear robs it of power.

3. Write a Tiny, Immediate Plan
Commit to one simple, uncomfortable first step—book a consult, attend a single class, spend 10 minutes on a new routine.

4. Expect Resistance and Walk Through It
Every meaningful change brings anxiety. It feels like danger, but it’s just stretching the edge of your comfort zone.

Client Story: “Michael’s Leap”

Michael wanted to correct long-standing shoulder pain. Every month, a new reason popped up to stall. Together, we spotted the deeper pattern (fear masked as “scheduling conflicts”), set a single appointment, and started small. A year later, he’s pain-free, stronger, and now tells others: “Action—especially when uncomfortable—is always the right time.”

Why Osteopathic Manual Therapy Breaks the Pattern

[Osteopathic manual therapy] isn’t just about hands-on healing; it’s about assessment, facing your starting point, and accepting change at a safe, expert-driven pace.

You’ll get support reframing fears (“Is this pain, or just the sensation of new movement?”)
Adjustments are gradual, not overwhelming.
Small victories build genuine confidence, making action easier the next time.

Final Thought: Practicality Is Only Practical…If It Moves You Forward

Real practicality is growth-oriented—it’s about choosing the safest steps to move toward your goals. If your plans never risk, never stretch, never make you sweat (a little), you’re not being “practical”—you’re being cautious, and likely letting fear hold you still.

If habitual stress, tension, or “one day” thinking still has you stuck, take the next practical step schedule Osteopathic manual therapy.
You’ll build resilience, confidence, and movement one real, meaningful action at a time.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 30 2023

Don’t Let a Therapist “Fix” You

There’s a myth in modern wellness: the “broken/fix” story. You tweak a knee, strain your back, or lose range in your neck. The impulse is immediate—go to a “fixer.” You hope, “If I can just find the right therapist or doctor, they’ll repair the problem and I’ll be whole again!” But that mindset, while understandable, is what sabotages real, lasting recovery.

Why Passive Healing Fails (and How to Take Back Control)

The “fix me” mindset reduces you to a passive recipient. It’s the medical model writ large: the doctor fixes, the patient waits. In reality, health is participatory. You are not a machine—where a mechanic swaps a part and sends you on your way. Instead, each pain, weakness, or restriction is built over years of choices, movement patterns, posture and habits.

Story: Rachel’s Journey
Rachel, 62, came to SolCore after multiple rounds of therapy, massage, even surgery for shoulder and neck pain. She’d try a new expert, feel a little better, but relapse again and again. It wasn’t until she shifted from “who can fix me?” to “how can I participate in my solution?” that she made permanent progress. Small, daily actions—her home exercises, posture reminders, intentional breathing—compounded over months into a real turnaround.

The Problem with Expecting a Quick Fix

Loss of Ownership: The outcome is always at the therapist’s mercy, not yours.
Repeat Failures: If “fixed,” you often slide into the habits or patterns that caused the problem, and the pain returns.
Emotional Letdown: When cracks remain, it’s easy to blame the therapist, not reevaluate your own role.

What DOES Work: Collaboration and Self-Responsibility

The right therapist doesn’t “fix you”—they guide, teach, and support. They provide a plan, but the work is yours. It’s the daily practice—movements, choices, consistency—that flips the script from victim to advocate.

Set a Clear Goal: Not just “get rid of pain,” but “return to hiking with stability,” “lift my grandchild safely,” or “sleep through the night with zero back stiffness.”
Do the Work: Learn each exercise or stretch, do them between sessions. Log wins, note discomfort or setbacks for adjustment.
Ask Questions: Understand the WHY behind every assignment—not for compliance, but ownership.
Monitor Habits: Are you sitting, sleeping, and moving in ways that support or sabotage progress? Journaling and self-reflection are vital.

What Makes Osteopathic Manual Therapy Powerful?

[Osteopathic manual therapy] is about more than hands-on corrections. It features:

Precise Assessment: Identifying the root cause, not just chasing symptoms.
Gentle, Dynamic Adjustments: Helping your body remember proper motion, but NEVER promising miracles overnight.
Education Side-by-Side: You’ll be taught why and how to move, stretch, and recover—making you the expert in your own body.

Clients who thrive come in ready to learn, not simply be worked on.

Avoiding Dependence and the “Healing Trap”

Too many people bounce from practitioner to practitioner, always searching for the “magic combo.” Resist the urge. Dangerous patterns include:

Only showing up for therapy, never following the home plan.
Blaming prior practitioners but not examining your effort.
Seeking each new gadget or trend in hopes of skipping the basics.

Client Example: “Sam’s Self-Turnaround”

Sam came in after a major sports injury. For months, he hoped each appointment would “do the trick.” When his therapist told him, “This work is 20% me, 80% you between sessions,” Sam bristled—but listened. He poured effort into daily stretching, obsessively corrected his posture at his desk, and tracked progress. Result? Full return to sport (and a lifelong sense of agency over his body).

The Real “Fix”: Consistency and Education

Healing happens with repetition, adaptation, and mindful progression—not emergencies or one-off interventions. If life throws you new problems, you’ll have tools—not just hope for a fix.

Checklist for Lasting Recovery

Leave each session with homework, not just relief.
Embrace small setbacks—they’re feedback, not failure.
Support sessions with quality sleep, nutrition, hydration, and stress management.
Celebrate your results—you earned them.

Next Steps

Ready to graduate from “patient mode” to “participant?” Book a session for [osteopathic manual therapy] partner with your provider, put skin in the game, and watch your body pay you back with years of freedom.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 30 2023

Keep Promises to Yourself for Lasting Success

person exercising as a reminder to keep promises to yourself

Most of us learned young that keeping promises to others is fundamental—part of trust, friendship, and reliability. But how often do you break promises to yourself, and what does it really cost? The truth is, your internal track record can make or break a fitness journey, impactful change, and ultimately, your own self-respect.

Why Broken Self-Promises Matter

Imagine promising a friend you’ll meet at sunrise and no-showing, week after week. Eventually, they’d stop counting on you. When you regularly break your own promises—“I’ll stretch every night,” “I’ll walk at lunch,” “I’ll avoid mindless snacking”—you teach yourself that your own word doesn’t matter. The cost? Growing frustration, lost momentum, and declining belief in future goals.

The Cycle of Letdown—and Why It’s Common

Life throws curveballs. You say you won’t overeat this weekend, but stress leads you to raiding the fridge. You swear to a new morning workout, but the alarm rings and you “accidentally” snooze. Each missed intention chips away at your confidence and identity as someone who follows through.

How to Break the Cycle (and Rebuild Trust in Yourself)

1. Re-evaluate Your Promises
Make sure what you commit to is what you truly want, not just what you think you “should” want. Real desires energize action; fake goals quickly fade.

2. Get Radical About Self-Honesty
What’s really sabotaging you? Lack of time, unsupportive routines, or maybe perfectionism (“I missed once—may as well give up”)?

3. Start Small and Over-Deliver
Choose the lowest-hanging fruit: a five-minute stretch, one healthy meal, a daily walk. Keep streaks manageable.

Under-promise, over-deliver. Small wins breed big momentum.

4. Make Promises Public
Tell a friend, colleague, or coach. Accountability increases commitment—doubly so when your reputation is on the line.

5. Celebrate Each Kept Promise
Tiny rewards matter: cross the task off your list, share progress in a group, or simply savor the feeling.

6. Stack Wins and Build Self-Trust
One day becomes a week, a month, a new standard. Suddenly, you expect to follow through—and you do.

Real Client Results: “Leah’s Integrity Streak”

Leah struggled for years with weight loss and stretching routines—endless cycles of “start strong, fall off.” When she committed to just three daily promises—drink water, five minutes of breathwork, evening stretch—her identity shifted. “I’m someone who honors her word. I finally trust myself.”

The Psychology: Self-Integrity as Motivation

Research shows that keeping promises to yourself boosts dopamine, creates positive self-talk, and literally rewires brain circuits for confidence, motivation, and resilience. Conversely, breaking promises repeatedly heightens shame and self-doubt.

If You Slip (And You Will)

Relapses and off-days will happen: the key is to forgive yourself quickly, reboot, and keep going. The “never miss twice” rule is powerful. Miss a morning? Double down at night.

Coaching/Guidance Amplifies Results

If you’ve tried self-motivation but keep tripping up, a coach or group can help:

You’ll map realistic promises and the supports needed to keep them.
You’ll have a sounding board for setbacks.
Progress becomes collective, not just private struggle.

Personified: Treat Yourself as You Would a Friend

Would you let down a close friend or child, again and again? Of course not! Act as your own best friend—sincere, honest, and persistent. Your self-respect is worth the effort.

The Simple Formula for Lasting Change

Make it meaningful.
Make it doable.
Track and reward.
Repair after stumbles.
Iterate as you grow.

Ready for Support?

Not sure where to start? Want a “trust rebuild” and real routine? Book a [Free Consultation] at SolCore Fitness. Let’s clarify your goals, map out simple promises, and lay down a track record that pays off for years to come.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 30 2023

Positive Mindset Habits You Can Build

Introduction: Why Mindset Is the REAL Foundation

Ever notice two people can experience the same day and have opposite attitudes? “Ugh, Monday is a drag,” versus “Hey, new week, let’s see what happens.” The difference? It’s not the circumstances—it’s the mindset. Mindset is more than trendy “positive thinking.” It’s the foundation for how you interpret events, handle obstacles, and rebound from stress. At SolCore Fitness, we’ve found that everything—commitment, resilience, even physical health—starts with your story about what’s happening.

The Power of Perception

Perception is choice in action. Imagine you’re late for work and stuck in traffic. One mindset says: “My whole day is ruined.” Another reframes: “Great, I’ve got ten minutes of me-time.” Same event. Different perception leads to different stress, mood, and likelihood of eating breakfast or finishing a workout later.

The “Brain Reps” Theory

Just as you build strength set after set, you build mindset moment-by-moment, story-by-story. Every time you practice a more constructive thought—“Setbacks are feedback, not failure”—you lay down neural “tracks” that make it easier to choose helpful thoughts tomorrow.

Real-World Story: Sharon’s Shift

Sharon, a long-term SolCore member, was queen of negative self-talk. If a class felt tough, she’d say, “I’m so weak.” If the scale didn’t budge in a week, “It’s hopeless.” After coaching, Sharon built a new mental habit. She replaced every criticism with a countering truth: “It’s normal to struggle. I’m getting stronger every time.” Within two months, her stress levels dropped, she looked forward to tough days, and—bonus—her body changed faster because she stopped sabotaging herself emotionally.

Habit #1: Question Your First Story

Pause when you catch yourself making a snap judgment (e.g., “I failed at my workout”). Ask, “Is this absolutely true? What’s another story?” This unlocks new perspectives—“I showed up, pushed through, and learned what I need to focus on.”

Habit #2: Practice Daily Wins

At the end of each day, jot down three “wins”—big or small. Over time, this shifts your brain’s attention from what’s missing to what you’re building.

“I cooked a healthy dinner.”
“I took a walk.”
“I apologized instead of stewing.”

Habit #3: Choose Supportive Language

Transform “I have to work out” into “I get to move my body.” Instead of “It’s hard,” try “It’s challenging, which means I’m growing.” Language isn’t just communication—it builds reality.

Habit #4: Cultivate “Obstacle Immunity”

Resilient people expect setbacks. They develop a script: “This challenge is an opportunity to learn.” When plans get derailed—illness, work, unexpected travel—view it as training for real life, not a personal flaw.

Habit #5: Embed Mindset Shifts In Action

John struggled to maintain his routine when family stress peaked. We made a plan: for every negative thought (“I have no time”), anchor it to an action (“I’ll do a 5-minute stretch right now”). Action cements new mental patterns.

How Positive Mindset Fuels Physical Progress

The research is clear: optimistic people recover faster from injury, are less likely to develop chronic pain, and have better immune function. How? Lower cortisol, adaptive behavior, and a willingness to try again.

Caution: Positive Doesn’t Mean Fake

You don’t have to deny hard times. True “positive mindset” acknowledges pain, setbacks, and struggle—then seeks the lesson or opportunity, not just a happy face.

When Mindset Shifts Don’t Come Easy

If you’ve faced trauma, chronic pain, or have deeply engrained self-criticism, shifting mindset can be difficult. Support helps: journal, work with a coach, or join a group where positive stories are the norm.

Building the Habit—One Day at a Time

Start every morning with a question: “What’s one thing I’m grateful for?” or “What could go right today?”
Pair your workout with a positive affirmation: “Every rep is me building capability.”
After tough days, ask, “What would I tell a friend?” Then say it to yourself.

Client Example: Rick’s New Week Ritual

Every Sunday, Rick writes two lists: “Last week’s wins” and “What I’ll attempt this week.” This simple review keeps self-doubt in check and sets him up for consistency, even when motivation dips.

Final Step: Get Help Turning Mindset Into Consistency

It’s one thing to read about these ideas; it’s another to practice them. If you want support, clarity, and a plan for weaving these new habits into daily life, book a [Free Consultation]. At SolCore, we’ll help you build the mindset that lays the base for the body you want.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 17 2023

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May 15 2023

Why I Don’t Care What You Feel in Training

Yes, you read that right. It might sound harsh of course, I care about my clients. But I don’t trust your “feeling” as the best feedback when we’re retraining movement or building new mobility and strength. Why? Because the way you feel muscular or emotional can easily fool you.

The “Feelings Aren’t Reality” Principle

Let’s break it down:

Feelings are fleeting: Soreness is not the same as progress; ease is not always a sign of good form.
Old patterns “feel right” until you rewrite them: Most adults, especially those over 40, have ingrained compensations (chronic tightness, weak links) that “feel normal” but are anything but functional.

Example: Ava’s Shoulder Surprise

Ava had practiced yoga for 15 years. She swore she “didn’t feel” her left scapula in certain movements. When cued to use new muscle patterns, it felt wrong even though video showed improved alignment. Three months later, she reported, “That weird feeling is my new normal, and I’m stronger than ever.”

Why the Mind-Body “Signal” Gets Smudged

Neuromuscular pathways what science calls “neuro-engrams” get built by repetition, good or bad. If you spend years overusing quads and underusing glutes, “activating glutes” will feel awkward… until you do it long enough for your brain to remap.

The Wrong Question: “What Should I Feel?”

Instead, ask:

Is my form correct by external measurement (mirror, coach feedback, video)?
Am I consistent, able to repeat the movement cleanly under fatigue or stress?
Am I building range, not just “burn”?

The SolCore Holistic Approach

We cue the whole system, not just one muscle. A myofascial release may not “feel” as intense as a quad set, but works the network. Myofascial stretching resets connective tissue, releases stuck points, and encourages your brain to “map” movement differently.

Myofascial stretching is designed to help you rediscover correct sensation safe, sustainable, functional by breaking old compensations.

The “Proprioceptive Gap” and Why It Matters

Research confirms that adults often lose proprioceptive awareness (sense of internal movement/location) in injured or underutilized zones. Feel nothing? It’s not failure it’s the reason to keep going!

Analogy: Learning to throw with your off hand feels weird, awkward, “wrong” until the brain “remembers” the pattern.

Progress Comes With Patience

Trust the process: the feedback “I don’t feel it” is a normal start.
Work with structured, science-based cues. Trust video, mirrors, coaches.
Allow time for awkward to become organized, then efficient, then easy.

Story: Mark’s Squat Transformation

Mark always felt his “quads burn” in squats ever glutes or hamstrings. Video analysis revealed knee collapse and instability. Four weeks of mind-muscle connection coaching later, he “felt nothing…just the work.” But his squats became smoother, pain gone, jumps improved, and his “difficulty feeling” was actually his nervous system building new precision.

Don’t Get Fooled by Good or Bad Days

Sometimes you’ll feel “on top of the world.” Other days, you’ll wonder if you’ve made progress at all. This is noise in the system. Long-term results improved posture, increased load, reduced pain—matter far more.

How to Rewire Your Response

Practice repeatedly. The brain needs many reps to overwrite an old motor engram.
Embrace feedback. Seek external observation not just sensation.
Shift focus: “What can I control alignment, cadence, effort?” not “How intense is the burn?”

When Feeling is the Goal

Some modalities breathwork, relaxation do hinge on internal sensation. In performance and corrective exercise? The map is built by doing the work, feedback, and patience.

Ready to Break Out of “Feeling-Based” Ruts?

If you’re tired of chasing sensation (“am I doing this right?”) and want expert eyes and science-based progress, book a Myofascial stretching consult/session with us. Let’s remap your movement for long-term gains, not just fleeting feels.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 15 2023

The Irony of Wanting to Get Out of Pain

“I just want to be out of pain.” It’s a wish nearly everyone has uttered whether after a bad night’s sleep, a gardening mishap, or years of nagging aches. But the paradox is this: truly escaping pain long-term doesn’t involve avoiding it at all costs. It almost always means moving through discomfort, addressing the root cause, and correcting imbalances even when it’s challenging.

Pain: Not the Enemy, but a Messenger

Pain is your body’s dashboard light an alert that something is amiss. At first, it’s a whisper: a twinge while walking, dullness after a workout. Ignore it, and the volume rises: throbbing, stabs, or loss of mobility. Eventually, untreated pain will disrupt sleep, mood, relationships, and even your vision for the life you want.

Client story “Paul’s Pattern

Paul loved hiking but developed recurring knee pain that started as occasional stiffness and morphed over months into chronic swelling. He tried band-aid fixes NSAIDs, ice packs, even a cortisone injection. Pain diminished… briefly. But the problem wasn’t gone it simply went silent until the next adventure.

Two Roads: Mask or Correct

There are really only two options:

Mask the pain: Medications, passive modalities (ice/heat), or quick treatments offer momentary relief but rarely address why the pain existed in the first place.
Correct the root: This path is more challenging. It requires assessment, addressing movement patterns, building resilience, and yes—sometimes working through discomfort to restore function.

Why the Quick Fix Usually Fails

Covering up pain or chasing only comfort leads to…

Reliance on escalating meds or procedures (Tylenol > opioids > cortisone > surgery)
Greater tissue breakdown behind the scenes
Loss of confidence in your body, fear of movement, and in time… more pain

It’s like duct-taping over a check engine light.

The Courage to Correct

Story “Terri’s Turnaround

Terri, a runner, had low back pain off and on for years. Every time it flared, she’d skip core work and double down on “rest.” She never got lasting relief because she never addressed why her back hurt: weak glutes, stiff thoracic spine, and poor pelvic stability. With support at Sol Core, Terri committed to a program focused on mobility, core strengthening, and gradual progress sometimes through discomfort. Did it hurt at first? Sure. But within three months, her pain was gone, running was easier, and her confidence soared.

True Recovery Means Facing the Source

Long-term change relies on:

Assessment: Find WHY pain is present (movement dysfunction, imbalance, weakness, compensation).
Precision: Use corrective exercise and manual therapy to restore optimal patterns—don’t guess or self-treat randomly.
Consistent, Targeted Effort: Improvements take time. Your nervous system, joints, and fascia adapt only with persistent, quality input.
Learning Your Signals: Pain is rarely “fixed” overnight. Honor signals—differentiate productive discomfort from warning pain.

Why Even “No Pain” Isn’t Always Good News

Some clients say, “But I don’t hurt now—do I need to change?” Yes. The body is good at compensating (masking imbalances by overusing other tissues). Pain is sometimes the last sign. Like thirst, once it hits you, you’re already dehydrated.

Client Example: Maya’s “Hidden” Knee Risk

Maya, a hiker, had great energy no pain yet but her squat form and stair gait were off. Early intervention with a holistic exercise and fitness program corrected these patterns, preventing the injuries many of her friends later faced.

The Mindset Shift: See Discomfort as Positive

Productive Discomfort: Good pain is what you feel when a tight muscle finally stretches, or weak tissue begins to fire correctly.
Destructive Discomfort: Bad pain is sharp, stabbing, or worsening with good alignment—signal to stop and reboot.
Growth Mindset: Understand that challenge yields resilience. The short-term test leads to robust, pain-free living.

Blending Therapy and Training

At SolCore, our [holistic exercise and fitness program] uses a blend:

Assessment: Functional screens, posture checks, history review
Osteopathic manual therapy: To restore joint and fascial mobility
Corrective exercise: To teach your brain and body new, pain-free movement patterns (ELDOA, myofascial stretching, core stability)
Progressive overload: Safe intensity increases to develop strength and function for real life

When Rest Becomes Harmful

Rest is crucial in acute injury, but rest without re-training fosters stiffness, weakness, and recurrence. The right movement is medicine.

Facing Fear: Why We Procrastinate

Many fear discomfort—“What if I make it worse?” The right guide helps you differentiate helpful pain from harmful, and supports you one step at a time.

Results That Last

Pain relief that doesn’t return
More confidence and strength for life’s demands
Skills to manage future setbacks, instead of cycling back to square one

Ready for REAL Progress?

Don’t settle for fleeting relief. Take the courageous route: address the root, learn the signs, and embrace the wisdom of discomfort. If you’re ready to truly break the pain cycle, start with our holistic exercise and fitness program you’ll gain more than just comfort; you’ll unlock lifelong energy and freedom.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 09 2023

How Extreme Ownership Can Transform Your Life

In a world full of distractions and excuses, there’s a perfect lie: “My circumstances control my results.” But there’s a radical, life-changing alternative extreme ownership. This principle, popularized by Navy SEALs and embraced by world-class performers in every field, puts you 100% in charge: your actions, your outcomes, your future.

What Is Extreme Ownership?

Extreme ownership means taking absolute responsibility for everything in your sphere. It’s tough medicine—when you win, it’s because you led wisely; when you stumble, you look to self-correct first.

Did you miss a training session? No blame, just “What can I do to set myself up better tomorrow?”
Did an injury resurface? “What cues did I miss? What can I prep differently next time?”

Client Story: “Andy’s Accountability Block”

Andy was frustrated: “I keep getting hurt and can’t seem to build momentum.” At first, he blamed bad luck, “old injuries,” or even his schedule. The turning point came when he accepted: results good and bad were his to own. With help, Andy started tracking habits: sleep, meal prep, warm-ups, scheduling sessions. He noticed patterns late nights sabotaged progress; skipping warm-ups led to old knee pain. By owning the process, Andy reclaimed his health and shifted from passive victim to unstoppable advocate.

Seven Lessons of Extreme Ownership (Inspired by the SEALs)

Seize Accountability – Every outcome is a case study. Celebrate wins, and study setbacks—what can YOU change?
Clarity of Motivation – Know why you want results. Keep your “why” where you see it daily.
Build a Simple Plan – Don’t overcomplicate; focus on big levers (daily movement, meal prep, sleep).
Remove “Blamethink” – Excuses feel easy, but stall growth. Trade them for honest appraisal, then action.
Act on Priorities – Decide what matters—progress here drowns out what’s less important.
Seek Collaboration – Ownership isn’t isolation. Ask for help, coaching, or guidance—but always act.
Small Acts, Big Results – String a hundred small wins into momentum; never wait for a “heroic” save.

Moving From Victimhood to Victory

When you own your routines, you see obstacles as surmountable—or at least as learning steps. Excuses melt away in the light of focused attention.

Miss a workout? Find a slot tomorrow. Didn’t meal prep? Assess, adjust, and try again.
Progress stalls? Communicate with your coach, review your routines, and fine-tune.

Extreme Ownership in Fitness

How you train is how you live. Clients who thrive:

Log every session—wins and misses.
Adjust meals as soon as energy lags or recovery drops.
Stand up for their priorities—even when family and work tug from all sides.
Ask for feedback, embrace correction, and act on advice.

Personal Training and Manual Therapy as the Ultimate Support

Our personal training and manual therapy programs aren’t there to “fix” you, but to teach you ownership. We partner:

With each assessment, you take the lead on daily rituals and routines.
You’re coached in proactive recovery, not passive treatment.
Accountability means a friendly check-in and a nudge, not a rescue.

Ownership = Freedom

Here’s the paradox: taking responsibility, even for mistakes, is liberating. You quickly learn that you’re more capable, creative, and resilient than you thought.

Client Example: “Lisa’s Leadership Leap”
Lisa always waited for cues—“what do I do next?” Once she took control, she scheduled sessions, planned meals, and tracked her own progress. Her results accelerated, and—crucially—she felt JOY in the process.

Common Pitfalls (and How to Fix Them)

Slipping back into “blame mode”? Pause and reflect: “What did I influence here?”
Waiting too long to address an injury or challenge? Reach out, get feedback, and immediately act on it.

Building a New Identity

The biggest change? You become the kind of person who sets goals and achieves them, because every step is under your influence.

Ready for Extreme Ownership?

Stop waiting for “when the time is right.” Reclaim your results and future. Want a partner in ownership? Explore our personal training and manual therapy options and discover what true transformation feels like when you lead the way.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 08 2023

Trust the Process to Achieve Real Change

“Trust the process.” Coaches, mentors, therapists all say it at some point. But what does it actually mean for your health, your progress, and your long-term results? Most people get excited to start a new journey be it a fitness plan, recovery routine, or life overhaul but lose steam when results don’t come instantly. The truth is, any meaningful change comes from steady engagement with the process, not from chasing overnight breakthroughs.

Why Trusting the Process Is So Hard

Let’s be honest: we live in an instant-results culture. Order today, it’s shipped tomorrow. Click “like,” get a dopamine hit. Even in wellness, we’re bombarded with “30-day transformation” promises. But in the real world, true change looks more like a slow sunrise a gradual lightening, not a dramatic flash.

Client Story: “Travis and the Patience Game”
Travis was a cross fitter who injured his shoulder a mild tear that ended up needing months of work. Used to fast results, he grew frustrated by slow rehab: “Why am I not 100% after 4 weeks?” His turning point came when he realized each week brought small wins better sleep, less inflammation, a pain-free workday. By the 9th week, his “small wins” had added up to big progress but only because he surrendered to steady, thoughtful work and stopped chasing shortcuts.

The Four Stages of Real Change

Uninformed Optimism: At first, you’re excited, hopeful, and ready to work. Easy wins come quickly (weight drops, energy surges, pain decreases a bit).
Informed Pessimism: Progress slows or plateaus. Challenges multiply. Doubt arrives: “Is this working?”
Valley of Despair: You face setbacks, mental fatigue, maybe even crisis (“I blew it—maybe I’ll quit”).
Informed Optimism: Consistency starts paying off. Skills become natural, new strength or mobility returns, confidence soars.

The catch? Only those who trust the process make it to the fourth stage.

“Trust” Means Active, Not Passive

Trusting the process isn’t about blind faith or passivity—it’s about active participation. That means:

Showing up, even when you don’t feel motivated
Recording data (rest, sleep, mood, pain, wins, setbacks)
Communicating honestly with your coach or therapist

The Hidden Magic of Accountability

Self-guided change is possible—but community support, expert guidance, and outside “eyes” make progress easier, faster, and more fun. At SolCore, clients who stick to regular check-ins are far more likely to stay on track, adjust when obstacles arise, and celebrate progress at every stage.

Why Resets Take Time: Physiology and Mindset

Tissues need to adapt: Fascia, muscle, and joints repair slowly—three months for new collagen, six for tendon strength.
Nervous system rewiring: Habits are entrenchments in your nervous system; remapping takes countless reps and positive exposures.
Mindset maturity: Only by repeating the process through multiple setbacks do you really internalize resilience.

Story: “Naomi’s Year of Change”
Naomi came for osteopathic therapy after years of back pain and “failed” programs. We set realistic goals, focused on gradual posture changes, and celebrated every micro-victory. Six months in, her pain was 50% better but—more importantly—she was empowered to coach herself out of setbacks. By the one-year mark, she was not only pain-free, but confident, consistent, and self-motivated.

How to Enjoy (or At Least Honor) the Process

Set micro-goals: Track minutes walked, water drunk, or stretches performed—not just big milestones.
Document how you feel: Notice energy, sleep, focus. Progress is about wholeness, not just metrics.
Forgive yourself for dips: Setbacks are normal—not a sign of failure, but of growth.
Ask for reminders: Let your coach or teammates cheer you on through hard phases.

When to Adjust (Not Quit) the Process

If you’re consistent but not seeing any change after several months, it’s time for honest feedback and perhaps expert reassessment. Sometimes the path requires adjustment, not abandonment.

Role of Osteopathic Manual Therapy

Osteopathic manual therapy supports the process by:

Diagnosing small blockages and imbalances that sabotage progress
Resetting tissue and alignment so new habits can “stick” faster
Encouraging patients to be participants, not just patients

Clients often say: “The hands-on session lit a spark for faster breakthroughs—because it built on months of honest work at home.”

Final Words: Embrace the Long Game

Great change is never “done”; it’s a lived, evolving process. There’s joy, strength, and pride in mastery not just results. Whether you’re starting today or starting over for the tenth time, the key is to trust the process, show up, and welcome the learning journey itself.

Ready for guidance and support? Book a session with us for osteopathic manual therapy or a consult on your next training phase. Let’s build something that lasts together.

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May 01 2023

SolCore Fitness Therapy Success Story: Joanne Brown’s Holistic Transformation

Joanne Brown shares her SolCore Fitness Therapy success story

At SolCore Fitness Therapy, we know that the best transformations are built on science, support, and a customized approach. Joanne Brown’s journey is a testament to what happens when the right method, the right environment, and the right mindset come together.

Joanne’s Struggle: Stiffness, Pain, and “Stuck” in the System

Joanne arrived at SolCore on a typical New Mexican afternoon—tired, frustrated, and skeptical. She’d spent years drifting through exercise fads and well-meaning advice: swimming for fitness (helpful, but not enough weight-bearing load), daily walks (nice, but didn’t fix stiffness), and even prescription therapies that offered only fleeting relief. The frustrations compounded:

Chronic mid-back “pulls” that never quite resolved
Restless sleep, low energy, and a growing fear that her 60s meant giving up on movement joy
A sense that her own body was a puzzle, unsolved by “standard” approaches

Finding the Holistic Difference at SolCore

A friend recommended SolCore’s unique approach. On day one, Joanne noticed a difference: the group classes weren’t “bootcamp torture”—they were supportive, slow, and deeply educational. Led by Ekemba, she learned about the science of fascia, myofascial stretching, posture alignment, and real corrective exercise (not “one size fits all” templates).

Assessment and the Blueprint

Rather than jumping into random workouts, Joanne received a thorough movement screening—analyzing posture, joint function, and movement patterning. The result? A clear blueprint for her program:

Address mid-back and shoulder mobility
Integrate fascial stretching to relieve tension “chains”
Focus on strength from the inside out (core, posture, breath)

The Journey: Small Wins and Transformative Shifts

Over the next six months:

Myofascial stretching improved her daily movement and loosened mid-back tightness
Holistic classes (always capped at 15 people for direct attention) boosted her confidence
Personalized homework connected the dots on why her “bad days” came and went

Joanne’s favorite insight? “I learned my body isn’t broken—it was just missing the right stimulus and support.”

The Results: More Than Just Pain Relief

Freedom from daily mid-back pain (“I just didn’t feel quite right—now that’s just gone!”)
Greater mobility in her upper body and balance on walks
Deeper, more restorative sleep (“For the first time in years, I wake up refreshed!”)
Stronger connections to the group: community, encouragement, and accountability

Clients like Joanne consistently remark that SolCore’s group setting gives both expert feedback and camaraderie—never competition or pressure.

Why Holistic, Fascia-Focused Training Works

Integration over Isolation: Muscles don’t work alone; the group teaches you how chains move together.
Manual Therapy Meets Movement: Hands-on corrections prime the body, while classes reinforce efficient patterns.
Ongoing Education: Each session explains the “why” behind every stretch or drill—empowering clients to carry lessons into daily life.

Advice for Newcomers: Joanne’s Insights

“Don’t be nervous—you don’t need to be ‘fit’ to join.”
“Expect to learn. The more you understand about your body, the more you respect the process.”
“Progress isn’t always linear—some weeks you’ll leap, some you’ll simply stay the course. Trust the journey.”

Next Steps for Readers

If you’re skeptical about group exercise, tired of cookie-cutter routines, or worried your body’s “too far gone,” Joanne’s story proves that a science-based, holistic approach can rewrite your future.

Curious how you might benefit? Check out [The Ultimate Guide For A Holistic Exercises And Fitness Program] to learn the philosophy behind our approach—and see how we help clients of all ages build lasting change.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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